Nursing A Dying Profession

In loving memory of all the nurses we have lost and keep losing to Covid-19.

There is a protest organized by one of the most vocal Nurse’s association in the United Kingdom. Its aim is to decry the segregation of nurses when the Tories government decided to raise pay for senior doctors and teachers. This was as a sign of appreciation during the almost ending first bout of Covid-19 pandemic.

Since the Crimean War birthed Florence Nightingale, nursing has continued to be viewed as merely a vocation and not a true profession. They coined the “it is a calling” slogan, whipped it with enough gaslighting and fed it down the throats of professional nurses. It is nurses, not nuns. A profession, not a calling. But who is listening.

Nurses in the United Kingdom are sort of fed up with claps for their effort and slaps for their pay. Below-inflation raises is what they got the last time a pay was discussed. Perhaps even the threads that hold the prim, proper and highly cultured fabric of the British persona are getting loose. When a Brit protests, then things are not just bad but horrible.

Still there are ways of raising concerns. There are protocols that are in place and the upcoming protest is one of the ways to register displeasure. God speed fellow UKRNs.

Let’s Go to Kenya

Nurses are struggling to get quality personal protective equipment. So far, Kenya has lost at least four nurses to the Covid-19 and all we hear is a loud defeaning silence. When one of the doctors passed on (may she rest in peace) , the airwaves came to a standstill. In fact, my president, during his last address was kind enough to pass a word of condolences.

At the same , we had already lost two nurses. Clifford Manyara Mburia was a 58 year old Nurse anaesthetist at Kitengela Medical Centre. Covid-19 snatched him away from us.

Moses Gitonga Ringera was a 49 year old clinical nurse at the University of Nairobi. Two gentlemen with souls of pure gold. Two nurses who paid the ultimate sacrifice; with their lives. Yet in the heat of the moment, we have chosen to forget their names. When the dailies report on their deaths, their cadre gets lost in the blanket of healthcare workers. We have a name. We are nurses. Say our names.

We ignore the plight of nurses. When they complain, we hastily christen it as dancing on the graves of patients. Yet before those words left my mouth, we have a fresh grave of Nurse Marian Adumbo. The sun and the moon haven’t even shone on the chilling memory of her demise but we badly want to move on as a nation.

Let us talk about Nurse Marian

Marian, as she was fondly called by those dear and near attended the prestigious Asumbi girls high school. She was to later join Lwak girls and study Nursing in Nyabondo. Being a people’s person, Marian pursued a Bachelor of Science in Public Health at JKUAT university. She never confined herself to clinical nursing. Like an eagle, she spread her wings and flew high in the sky.

Marian was pregnant when Covid-19 struck. She should have been able to shield from work if the presidential orders were respected at hospital levels.

She gave her work all she had and eventually contracted Covid-19. It took enormous effort from fellow nurses to get physicians to attend to her properly. Marian held on even when the oxygen saturation in her blood kept fluctuating. She clung onto dear life to bring to the world a beautiful baby boy.

We sighed with relief as we heard reports of her recuperation postnatally. It therefore came as a sharp sword to the nursing backbone when she breathed her last. One baby left without a mum. One more nurse taken by the tentacles of Covid-19.

Shall we talk about risks?

The risks nurses undergo almost always become fatal. By it’s very nature, nursing has a truckload of occupational hazards. If you are not being spat on and slapped and called names by patients and their relatives, you are being given substandard personal protective equipment by the government. Or harangued by camera-happy politicians to work under inhumane conditions.

Perhaps that knowledge informed the decision to include a risk allowance in the pay of all healthcare workers. However, it is a cesspool of lies laced with a deeply set conspiracy theory to pay nurses Kes.3,850 every month as a risk allowance. Hear me out.

A pay of Kes.3850 is not even enough to cover all the vaccinations a nurse should ideally get before working in the clinical setting. On top of that, the NHIF cover does not recognize nurses as civil servants. This is so if they are of a job group lower than L. They end up providing for services that they themselves can’t afford. Other civil servants get comprehensive medical insurance but nurses do not. That is the extent to which we have diminished the nursing profession.

We treat nurses like a post script of medicine. Never the core of the system. They are an appendix of healthcare. Until Covid-19 happens and then we call them heroes. The difference between the betrayal of nurses in UK and Kenya is that UK waited for the pandemic to wane down before sticking sharp shards of glass to the souls of nurses. Kenya is doing it smack in the middle of the pandemic. A bold display of unregulated, gut wrenching ignominy. The gospel of the untouchables.

It therefore comes as no surprise that nurses may get such quality education in Kenya, get the requisite experience then pack their bags and leave for foreign countries.

Betrayal, friends of God, tastes better when served by strangers and like slimy undercooked mushrooms when served by family. I’d rather be hurt by the systems in UK , Canada, America or even Australia to name but a few, which I may or may not understand than watch in horror as the place I call home throws me to the dogs. No offense to dogs.

It is a mental workout to be a nurse in Kenya. A constant emotional cardio exercise. Probably all over the world but more so in my motherland. It sears like the edges of six serrated knives. All to the gut.

Nursing is not a profession of administering medication. Any person can hold a syringe and needle. Anyone can pop tablets and give them to patients. Nurses undergo intensive training to understand the human body. Not only do they aim to restore the physiological processes that go haywire when illness strike, but they also target to restore the emotional, psychological well being.

In fact, a definition of health by WHO that I like is; ‘a state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely the absence of disease or infirmity ‘(WHO 1948)

Show me a person that upholds that and I will confidently show you a nurse. Nurses are not asking for promotion into doctorate positions. They can do that by themselves. They have studied and are studying towards that. All nurses are asking for is for space at the table of health equality. Some semblance of recognition if the fact that they are human before they are nurses.

The nurses that have died so far are friends to people, they are mothers and mothers, sisters and brothers, wives and husbands and children of loving parents. Protecting us is protecting the world. Paying us some sort of appropriate dues is respect to the work we do. We are here to nurse the world back to health. We will not do it in atmospheres rife with malice and disdainful scorn.

The world was comfortable with doctors until Florence Nightingale showed up in the war with nothing but a cap on her head and a lamp on her hand to nurse soldiers back to health. The world will remain comfortable until she realizes that she needs a nurse. You will never do without a nurse. You may hold on but you’ll break. This is that one time in history we are asking , in the name of everything you consider holy, to protect nurses.

All nurses with underlying medical conditions must be allowed to shield and be fully paid. Stop recalling retired Intensive Care Nurses when we have young and healthy unemployed nurses. Is it that hard to do the Math? Suspend all contracts that make nurses slaves of paycheck. Absorb them into permanent and pensionable terms. That way they have no reason to risk their lives.

To the nurse managers, it is your responsibility to protect nurses that are under you. One day that office you occupy will be occupied by someone else. What you want is for the nurses to never forget what you made them feel. Your role is especially critical during Covid-19 pandemic. Inspect the personal protective equipment as they get delivered and should they fail the required standards, please return to sender.

John Lewis (may he rest in peace) left us with an admonition that if we see something is wrong we surely must say something about it; we owe it to the world to DO something about it. That is what we are called to do as nurses. Do things to make others right.

Marian’s promotion to glory is a call for all nurses to remember our own vulnerability. To be here for one another and in a thunderous cry, say enough is just about enough. Expressing our opinion will not alter the flow of water in the high seas but will cause ripples in the ponds and tributaries that feed into the ocean.

The following is a song we call the Nurses Anthem.

There is a candle, in every soul,some brightly burning, some dark and cold
There is a Spirit who brings a fire
Ignites a candle and makes His home

Carry your candle, run to the darkness
Seek out the helpless, confused and torn
And hold out your candle for all to see it
Take your candle, and go light your world
Take your candle, and go light your world

Frustrated brother, see how he’s tried to
Light his own candle some other way
See now your sister, she’s been robbed and lied to
Still holds a candle without a flame

So carry your candle, run to the darkness
Seek out the lonely, the tired and worn
And hold out your candle for all to see it
Take your candle, and go light your world
Take your candle, and go light your world

‘Cause we are a family whose hearts are blazing
So let’s raise our candles and light up the sky
Praying to our Father, in the name of Jesus
Make us a beacon in darkest times

Carry your candle, run to the darkness
Seek out the hopeless, deceived and poor
Hold out your candle for all to see it
Take your candle, and go light your world
Take your candle, and go light your world

Hold out your candle for all to see it
Take your candle, and go light your world
Take your candle, and go light your world
Take your candle, and go light your world

Source: LyricFind

I’m not Good at Goodbyes

They must change, who would be constant in happiness and wisdom ~Anon

There are many things I’m terrible at. Among them is twerking and saying goodbye. I have no idea when my backside married my waist but they sure are stuck at the hip. I was never invited to the marriage. When good music blast the air waves, I spring to my feet with dire temptation to twerk and shake the bright future behind me. I end up doing what I can call a duck’s waddle and that is being kind.

Goodbyes break my heart. That is why I prefer leaving without preamble. That says a lot about my past relationships. Sometimes I feel like calling for a meeting of my ex partners and offering them a collective apology for leaving without notice. But that would send wrong signals so hold that thought.

The last time I left a workplace, it hurt. I had worked at J hospital when I was a student pursuing Nephrology nursing. J Hospital is one of the best rated maternity hospitals in Kenya. I joined them as a bank staff nurse. That is for the sake of my British readers. To the rest of the world, I was a locum nurse.

What I knew about them was that they did not recruit anyone into their pool of locum nurses unless you had been a permanent staff at some point. However I applied. See, working and studying at the same time is not easy. Though I was given a study leave by my permanent employer, I still needed tuition fee. Bills needed to be paid and a bank loan I had unwittingly taken still needed financing.

My payslip was as dull as Marasmus illusionist like smoke and mirrors. My best friend took one look at it and declared,” Catherine you’re bleeding financially and you need to make it stop or you risk never ending the poverty in your family.”

That is why I jeeded an extra source of income. J Hospital employed me even without having worked with me previously. God’s favour, I have come to realise, respects no boundaries. When God decides to bless you, it is beyond human comprehension. So I gave up trying to explain.

For the entire year of my studies, I worked with them and put my best foot forward. I also put the other not best foot forward in school. Perhaps the feet were both great because I excelled at both my studies and I learnt a lot in the hospital.

Time came to say goodbye and I remember sitting with nurse managers K and M. I told them from the deepest parts of my heart how grateful I was to serve with them. I was not being polite. I just meant every syllable and punctuation mark. When time neared for me to leave Kenya, I went back and with a tiny piece of cake, I reiterated the same to the entire staff.

They did not understand why. For the longest part of my life, nursing was just a happenstance. J Hospital reaffirmed me as a nurse. I worked mostly on night shifts and the weekends because of school but even then, professionalism in nursing screamed out like catchy headlines.

My interviewer was Director F. She was brutal at the interview but she still recruited me. I hope to one day ask her why she chose me. I know she does not even remember me. All I know is nursing started making sense during that period. I remember telling her I never wanted to be a nurse. I was sure I flopped at the interview. She said I was interesting. The rest is history.

As tears rolled down my chubby cheeks, I waved goodbye through the purple gates of J Hospital. It was time to leave for the UK.

This scene was replayed last week when I had to say yet another goodbye to my colleagues at NM care home in Edinburgh, United Kingdom.

I was convinced, after the first few months in the UK, that I was not wanted or needed as a nurse. In fact, I was ready to book the next flight to Jomo Kenyatta International Airport (JKIA). Transferring from the initial work station to NM was a blessing. Here I was accepted. My blackness never mattered. Here, I was a nurse and not, “that new African nurse,” said with a scowl and a scoff.

It has not been easy. I expected to work in the nursing unit but I found myself in the dementia unit. Why I never complained is actually a mystery to me. I look back and ask myself why I never once approached the manager for a move to the general nursing unit. Perhaps it is because deep within my heart I came to adore mental health nursing.

I came to fall in love with that one aspect of nursing that I always let be in total abeyance. I was protective of my residents even when they made me feel so helpless and powerless. Not once did I wake up in the middle of the night to wonder if resident X was being restless because he was somehow in pain.

The Abbey Pain score tool may be straightforward on paper but it is hard to implement on a patient with advanced dementia. Some of the scores overlap with every day mannerisms of the patient. It becomes hard to tell if they are in pain or are just having an abnormal normal day.

Nursing changes her meaning when it comes to mental health. The balance is but a slither. A tongue of merit of a procedure against the potential harm. It seems like the only choice I ever made in my nursing career is actually Renal/Nephrology nursing. The rest have sort of landed on my lap.

Take for example my experience as a midwife. In basic nursing school, midwifery intimidated me. I however liked the tutor and I aspired to be her in many ways. She was always cool, calm and collected. Even when forcing you to redo a procedure, tutor G as we called her never lost her serenity. She was the meniscus that allowed a needle to float on water. Unshakable.

When I graduated, I told my classmates that I would never ever work as a midwife. Because God has a sense of humor, my first posting was in the Maternity ward. The second one in the County government of Kiambu was to a Maternity department as well.

I was convinced I’ll never leave the Maternity environment until we lost a 21 year old to acute kidney injury. That is when my love for Renal nursing was born. It still hurts to have lost her when I’m the one that admitted her to the antenatal ward. Anyway, that is a different story altogether.

Allow me to take you through this journey. I will mention a few people that have impacted my stay at the care home.

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NM nursing home enabled me to face myself. I especially had to learn a few things on conflict management. It reached a point where my team and I couldn’t coexist in harmony. Being who I am, I’m used to running away from conflicts and never once addressing them.

What I did that evening still surprises me. I asked the team to have a sit down with me and talk about their issue and I talk about mine. By the time the manager came to ask me about the argument we had had the previous evening, the case was solved. We had evaluated and planned for the future. Suffice it to say I will miss my team. They forced me to face conflicts as a point for growth.

I have been under the mentorship of mental health nurses. They have specialised in this field and I always ran to them for support. Case in point is nurse A who is a night shift nurse. Time and again I wrote nursing care plans which I wasn’t even sure of. Due to the Covid-19 pandemic, I never had a chance to undergo preceptorship so I have majorly been stumbling in the dark with writing of care plans.

Nurse A always checked them and in a melodious voice she would day,”stop doubting yourself my lovely, this care plan is great!” Much to my relief.

K is a mental health nurse who says that she is in her fifties. She does not look a day past 30! Being a Gemini like myself probably pulled me to her. She called my signature a ‘souvenir’ whenever we administered controlled drugs. She had the most subtle sarcasm and I think she is the only one that identified with my wicked sense of humor.

My 12 hour shift was shorter with her in the next-door unit. I knew if I ever got stuck, she would come running. Oh she can run! She ran when a resident in my unit had a chest infection and the hospital was delaying his admission.

She ran when I was unsure whether to phone for the ambulance myself or trust that the ambulance would show up after the doctor called for it one hour earlier. She infused large doses of confidence in me as a nurse.

She saw through my indecisiveness and fear. She consistently empowered my strong points and gently led me to a final decision on a matter. If I ever make a good clinical nurse, I will attribute it to K. There is something about her vast experience that is both intriguing and awesome.

Deputy home manager P is another soul I will never forget. He was always ready to help. He knows the company’s policies by heart. He knows every resident by the beat of his heart. He took me under the wing of his brilliant care and mentored me.

I remember one day sending him a message to ask if there was a problem with my skills as a nurse. This was after being fed cow turf about some nurse asking about my qualifications. I felt so insulted, so belittled. I asked P if he knew about any issues. He didn’t. He has been my sturdy bedrock of reassurance.

Tasha is a health care assistant. When I told her I’m moving to the Renal ward at the hospital, she cuddled me and quipped,” you deserve it. You need an environment that will let you be who you are” those words warmed my soul.

When I contracted Covid-19, nurse R the home manager came to my apartment to bring me supplies for the period of my self isolation. She was accompanied by the ever happy administrator H. This was the first time an employer went out of their way for me.

She asked me for a shopping list. She even looked for my preferred drink maziwa Mala known as Kefir here in the UK. R has been integral in my growth and development. Whenever I had issues and approached her, she never once unceremoniously pushed me aside. Even when I was very disturbed when someone questioned my qualifications, I asked her about it and she told me to treat those words as malice and attach contempt to them.

When I handed her my notice of resignation, she embraced it. She elicited how I needed to grow as a nurse. That a care home did not offer me enough challenges seeing that my career goals were very different. She was very helpful. I will miss working with her.

She also was happy to allow me keep swapping my shifts to suit my university lectures. Yes I am pursuing a Bachelor of Science in Nursing here in the UK too. Thank you for the clapping. Ha ha.

The icing on the cake was to hear the regional manager T and also my boss’s boss say,” Catherine I wish you the very best with NHS. However, should that not work out, please pick up the phone and call me. We will be happy to have you back.”

Wasn’t it for Covid-19 guidelines, I’d have hugged her and wet her flowery top with chunky rolls of tears of happiness.

Friends, sometimes we do not know how much people appreciate our presence until it is time to leave. I feel this has been it for me. As I look to the future with expectant longing, I nostalgically revel in the immediate past. I see favor in everything about my life.

Many have lost jobs during the pandemic but I have not only maintained one but also got another with my speciality as a Renal nurse. There are many factors that people may use to explain that. I choose God’s favor as the explanation.

Nancy is my spiritual helper and a staunch Christian. She has a habit of discussing my life with my best friend. She once told my best friend ,”does Catherine understand that God has decided to show off His might with her life?”

I believe her. I really do.

I had promised myself to be strong. I however broke down when I saw the multicolored balloons and good luck messages strapped onto a dining table all for me. I half-cried, half-laughed when I saw a pink bow for my hair as one of the farewell gifts.

Oh no! Can’t we go to page one and do it all over again? ~Winnie the Pooh

The Activities’ planner B and my team of health care assistants had made sure to get it for me. They even added white chocolates because that is my favourite flavour.

I love my hair bows. Maybe I still am a little girl at heart. I suspect myself to believe in unicorns and fairies too. In my defense, Scotland’s national animal is a unicorn. You should see my natural, kinky hair in a bow. I live for those moments. I am a happy nurse when I have a wee bow. I noticed that my residents liked it too.

I am thankful for a whole year of service with this company. I am smiling as I recall the small and big moments we have shared together.

I bid farewell to not only a care home, but MY home in Edinburgh. Thank you for allowing me to be part of your family.

A castle and a rock

She is not just royalty. She is a marriage of a rock and a castle. Edinburgh castle is perfect witchcraft

I remember the first time I saw her. Like nobility she was draped in purple. The hem of her garment spotted frills that brought hypnosis to life. Shifting lights of the night shone on her and she reflected these beams with sexy abandon. Alluring without trying to be. She oozed confidence with so much ease that she took my breath away.

I knew she would love me back even if it was the beginning of a wintry night. She held so much promise. Edinburgh, the capital city of Scotland in the UK was my new found best friend.

Malea and I had left Belfast for Aberdeen through Edinburgh. The flights from Belfast to Aberdeen were not until the following morning and we could do with a visit to this enigmatic city. We spent a night at a travel hotel just a stone throw away from Edinburgh Airport. Google had so much to say about Edinburgh and we couldn’t wait to have a preview.

With my village hood I posed in front of her

Our journey back to Aberdeen was by train later in the afternoon. In the meantime, Travel Lodge hotel welcomed us with a full English breakfast. It was self service. I was blonde at the components of a proper English breakfast. Malea is a nurse from the Philippines and going by her ease of using cutlery and pronouncing the names of the dishes, she was well exposed. Catherine on the other hand, was as exposed as a dead dodo.

I followed her lead in serving the breakfast. I copied everything including putting baked beans next to my toast. Dear Britain, who taught you this outrageous combo? And while you are at it, is there a white pudding to complement the black pudding? Just random Africannesse in me. Black pudding is mutura for cool kids.

Minutes later we hailed a black-bodied taxi to Waverly Train station. The plan was to wander about Edinburgh but within the radius of the train station. Missing the train was not in the to do list. The short detour was short and sweet.

Boasting of a majestic Castle on the hill Edinburgh attracts the mind and the heart. Within the walls of the vast and resplendent castle lies a wee room where Mary Queen of the Scots gave birth to King James VI of Scotland and I of England. So stately is the castle that it is build atop sturdy ancient and medieval rocks. Some call it the rock and the castle. I couldn’t agree more.

The city of Edinburgh sits among seven hills. It is surrounded by antiquated and romantic Victorian and Georgian buildings. Separating it into Old and New towns is the almighty Princes street. A beehive of trade. The epicenter of activity. An ocean of people moving in all directions from all over the world. Malea and I had the pleasure of loitering in a garden park just next to Princes street. The deliberate efforts of going green from the Edinburgh city council have paid off since this park was teeming with all sorts of summer flowers, cooing pigeons and silly seagulls.

Oh the seagulls. They cawed and boldly posed atop street lights and the Scot monument. The monument is coloured in streaks of dried, drying and fresh poop from the naughty birds.

Dressed in a kilt and hugging his bagpipes, a traditional Scot belted out tunes after tunes from them with reckless abandon. I was both mesmerized and amused. This was the first time I saw a man in a skirt! Okay, kilt.

Fun Fact: Men ideally wear no underwear under the kilt.

Months later after transferring to this ancient and portentous city, I have enjoyed every bit of it. Waverly has become my Afya Center. My friend and I designated it as such after numerous episodes of getting lost. Afya Centre is a famous building in Nairobi where all people wait to meet to avoid getting lost. Afya Centre is the True North of the city in the sun. So is Waverly for Edinburgh.

Rural Huntly with her unwelcoming aura felt like sipping water from a fire hose while Edinburgh was a gentle breeze on a summer night. I was received with open arms at the new work station. Strikingly dissimilar from the previous work station, this one had people of all colours. I was not the only African and this gave me a sense of comradeship. The staffs had interacted with people from all over the world and I quickly became part of the team.

I didn’t have to remember that I was African. Here I was me. Catherine, a UKRN. For the first time since coming to the UK, I took part in a staffs’ night out. I may have stayed out until half past ten but those few hours meant the world to me. It is in our nature to want to belong. To be accepted. To be in a group.

I gained confidence in my nursing skills just because I felt at home here. I was able to make and execute decisions as a nurse because I was part of the big painting on the canvas.

The weather in Europe has been described as the most outrageous in the world. Perhaps with keen interest in Scotland where it rains in winter and rains in summer. A saying goes that there is nothing as bad weather, just bad clothes. Edinburgh embodies this.

A few months ago Malea visited me. She settled in the city of Aberdeen but couldn’t wait to have a slice of my city. This was in the coming to birth of winter of last year. As we trotted from a Mexican hotel whose tacos were a stroke of genius, splattering rain interrupted the otherwise sunny afternoon.

Five minutes later little hail stones fell on her long silky dark hair. As if that was not enough, some snowflakes fell too and this was while the sun stood still. It all stopped as soon as it had begun. We experienced all seasons in one day. The work of an amusing god.

Twelve-hour shifts breeze away when I recall that I am working and living in Edinburgh. My first impression on that first night several moons ago has but grown in new depths and expanded my vistas. It is as cosmopolitan as London. Only without the haste in London. London reminds me so much of Nairobi. Where is everyone going to in such a hurry? Why the serious faces huh? Who hurt everyone? My city, my Edinburgh is home to good natured fellows. A smile here and a “hiya” there.

The Scottish accent however is another tall tale. We do not cross our t’s in Scotland; we swallow them. We annihilate them from the sentence. We pretend they do not exist. Water is not water until it is wo-a. Butter will not be on the toast unless it is ba-a. I never thought much of the accent until one of my trainers taught us at a class in Belfast. That is when I realized just how heavy the Scottish accent is.

I have been trying to teach the carers I work with the Kenyan accent. It is not working. They have been trying to teach me the Scottish accent. Proud to report that I fail spectacularly. It is even worse when I try to communicate with a resident. A particular one always says to me,”I don’t what you’re saying! ” in total exasperation.

It pays to have a super team at work. I can time and again approach my colleagues to ask them to interpret what in God’s green earth was just said to me. Not once or twice have I laughed to jokes told while I had no clue as to what the speaker said. Smile and laughter are universal languages that save me all the time.

Yesterday my friend and I went for a stroll in the shimmering lights of the summer evening. Mouth and nose fully concealed under a face mask, I waited to board a double-decker bus to my Afya Centre. An elderly man stared at me for some minutes at the bus stop before telling me something to do with face masks and smiling. I could relate. He however went on to talk about something else and the best I could say was “Aye”…..”Aye” and one more “Aye”

He must have thought I am a woman of few words. Probably thought I was wise. Truth is, I still have no clue as to what he told me.

But whatever he said in the name of good ol’ Edinburgh, AYE!

Mild Covid-19, Or Is It?

Cover your nose and mouth to cover the world.

I woke up before the others. Before the birds, before the sun. I woke up to post some tiny squiggles I call sentences on this blog. Out of habit, I checked the trend of Covid-19 in different parts of the world. I look out for new information. This virus is as dynamic as it is complicated. I must stay updated.

I then happened upon one of the public speakers in Nairobi. He shared his story on contracting Covid-19 and being admitted at a well-to-do private hospital in the city. What appalled me was the lackluster approach my countrymen adopted. My stomach knotted in several different spots.

I have battled what they call a mild form of Covid-19 yet there is nothing mild in it. Weeks after recovery, the journey has been a roller coaster of symptoms. It starts or ends with an episodic continuous cough. A cough so wheezy and hacking that you’d be forgiven to think I’ll drop down dead the next minute. I will say nothing about the muscle aches and absolutely unexplainable bouts of sadness.

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The good public speaker who we will call RB (I am so good at keeping things anonymous haha) wore a baseball cap and had oxygen being delivered through his nostrils as he went live on Facebook.

My people, being the ever light hearted fellows diagnosed him as a sympathy and attention seeker. It squeezed the remaining drops of life in me. Living and getting used to such low standards of public health care has blinded most netizens from the fact that oxygen administration isn’t a life and death situation.

That oxygen therapy is available even in some people’s houses. That oxygen cylinders are available for people to walk around with if they require long term administration of oxygen due to various medical conditions.

Interestingly, when Covid-19 hit New York city, a Kenyan in the US posted a video of herself using the same oxygen cannulae in a hospital. She was vocal in letting everyone see the seriousness of the illness. She received no bashing. When RB speaks about the same, he has become the bad guy.

Fact is that the cases of Covid-19 are on a sure and steady rise in Kenya. Nairobi especially is hanging on the precipice of tipping over. The curve of infection is on a sure way up. More than fighting the virus, my colleagues on the frontline will have to battle pure unadulterated ignorance from online personas.

These are people who have swallowed the narrative that Covid-19 is just a flu line hook and sinker. A tangled web of faulty beliefs, selfish impulses and desperation. Irresponsible and irredeemable. These are people whose sense of responsibility is as common as rain in the Sahara.

Pretending Covid-19 is just a bad flu will not make it one. That is a bias we are adopting to protect our fragile egos. A special kind of delusion. I am scared that now that the lockdown restrictions have been eased, most Kenyans will resort to factory settings. No social distancing, no hand washing and definitely no masks. And if they do wear them, they will be relegated to being chin guards and dangling ear pieces.

When you receive such hatred online after admitting that you have contracted Covid-19, how will other people manage to speak out? We must be woke that Covid-19 is here with us and is at local transmission. We will protect ourselves and those we love by being bold enough to go for tests and making them know that we are going to be self isolating due to the viral infection.

Contact tracing and tracking has been documented as being an effective mode of handling Covid-19. Consistently doing so will save us from potential annihilation as a country. When we discover cases early, we are able to isolate and treat them early when they are still contagious.

See friends, it is not your fault that you contracted Covid-19. It is nobody’s fault. Even the best laid plans go haywire. The least we can do besides protecting ourselves is supporting those that contract it.

Covid-19 is not HIV where you hide your status even from your family. We are at a very critical point in Kenya and many will get infected. If we receive them with the hostility we have directed at RB , then they will not reveal that they have been infected. These people may be your colleagues or even employees or a domestic manager. They will not tell you because nobody enjoys having their dignity stripped off them.

My appeal to the ministry of health in Kenya is to demystify contracting Covid-19. It is scary enough to gerrit but it is even worse to keep silent about it. When we lie about it or keep quiet, we waste precious time that may have been used to track and trace contacts for effective isolation and early initiation of supportive treatment.

There is power in speaking out. It gives courage to others in similar situations to know that they are not alone. However when those that speak out are pelted with keyboard stones, nobody speaks up, everyone gets infected and soon we start mourning our loved ones. Please desist from trashing people’s stories. It is an inspiration from hell and you are the Devil’s right hand person.

The lack of knowledge coupled with blatant flounting of rules from most government officials have made it look like one big joke. Like we can create memes and move on. If anyone speaks about their interaction with Covid-19 then they are seeking attention.

How twisted your brain must be if your way of getting attention is claiming to be suffering from a novel virus? I do not know who will make us realise that we are courting danger. Flirting with mortal disaster.

Do not be mistaken by the phrase mild Covid-19 infection. There is nothing mild in the after effects. There is nothing mild in the utter fatigue and mental ditches that one suffers after the fact.

Further, it is crystal now that the viral DNA remnants remain in the body for as long as 8 weeks (or more) in some people. These are not infectious and have served their time. However, who is to tell what damage those remnants could be doing in the body before they finally get eradicated? Research is still ongoing and believe me it is not fast enough.

Personal responsibility means that we are on our own. The government has done so much and now, in spectacular Obama style, they have dropped the microphone. We have reopened the country for the sake of the lost livelihoods, not because it is safe to do so.

Social media is informational. Part of that set of information is that oxygen delivery is not tantamount to intensive care admission. Is it about time Kenyans volunteered in hospitals and learnt a few things on the same? Perhaps then they will understand healthcare and own it.

We are used to seeing oxygen be given to people gasping for air. We never thought it can be administered while someone is able to talk and still eat and interact with their environment. And what is wrong with the baseball cap? Should RB have smeared ash on his face and worn a sack cloth for us to believe he is in the hospital battling Covid-19?

Fellow Kenyans, there is nothing as beautiful as our creative streak but sometimes we take the joke too far. This is why many people on your News Feed will never come out to say they contracted Covid-19. Because you will call them a few names before dismissing them.

I am struggling to understand post Covid-19 syndrome. I have been looking for people who have healed from Covid-19 for us to compare notes on life after Covid-19. Your judgemental behaviour is prohibiting them from speaking out.

To RB, there is a time you classified friends and said some should never be invited to the kitchen. It is time to classify Kenyans on social media. We die while laughing. We bash everyone and everything. May this episode of our malice not dampen your spirits. From a girl that recovered and is still recovering, get well soon.

PS : To anyone of African descent reading this and has healed from mild to moderate Covid-19.  Please write to me on Tell me about life after Covid-19.  Listen to your body. Let us compare notes.

Covid-19 in a Dementia Unit

Always remember, a dementia patient is not giving you a hard time; he is having a hard time
~Bob DeMarco

He always picked on me. Graeme M. Frank* always did. At 6″2 tall, he towered over me like a mighty Goliath. He didn’t do it on purpose though. Alzheimer’s had robbed him of the joys of human interaction. Infrequently however, divine light illuminates his mind and his best sides strikes through like a bolt of lightning.

But he still picked on me. We could be attending to him with one of the carers and he would choose me as the target of his clenched fists. “You will get it!” he’d threaten but forget about it as soon as he said it. A lion’s roar.

I work in an advanced dementia unit hence Alzheimer’s disease is one of the challenging illnesses I’ve had to deal with. As intimated before, mental health nursing is not one of my strengths. I time and again rely on those I work with to hold me together.

I am the team leader of a very capable team. At any given time, I have N* and J* as my health care assistants. I focus on the nursing aspect as they focus on the intimate caring bit. That is what the papers say. However, we essentially team up every second of every 12-hour shift to offer the highest attainable quality nursing care for all our residents.

They know I identify too much with my residents. N is the chief whip of the unit. She demands thick skin from me. I try. God, how I try. Occasionally I feel so helpless as a nurse I have to go to J for cuddles. J stabilises the team. I couldn’t ask for better carers!

Take for example this fluffy Friday afternoon. Fresh as a sunny day in winter, time dragged on and Graeme did what Graeme did best; wander with purpose.

It is a phrase we use to describe patients who move from place to place. At face value, it looks aimless but the truth is, their thought process indicates that they have a purpose to the movements. It gives them something to do. You can safely encourage this in a nursing home. Quite the opposite if you’re nursing this patient at home. They may get lost.

I heard a scuffle and rushed out of the treatment room to the corridor. Greame was very agitated and pushing Hillary* away. Graeme jealously protects his territory. Hillary loves being with other people. We had not noticed Hillary walk towards Greame and hold his hand. Graeme wasn’t very pleased. Neither was Hillary. It broke my heart.

As Hillary tightly clasped my hand and walked in tandem with me to the dining room, I unsuccessfully hid the tears welling up in my eyes. N, being the hawk-eyed of the two carers wasn’t fooled.

“Catherine why are you crying?” She enquired.

I’m not sure what I said but it bordered on my feeling sorry that Graeme didn’t know why Hillary wanted to hold hands and Hillary not understanding why Graeme didn’t want to go for a walk together! I may as have well spoken in tongues.

N and J both held me in a five stars embrace. Just what the doctor prescribed. A therapeutic hug. A hug that went to a private school and had access to private tutors growing up. Hugs, friends, hugs should taste like this. I wanted to freeze this moment right here and put it in a mirrored column pedestal or in gilt-edged frames. Priceless.

Hugs are the words we utter when our mouths can’t speak.

See, both carers have considerable experience working in dementia units. You could say they have seen it all. Well, yours truly hasn’t and I’m not sure she ever will.

Graeme, apart from being ferociously territorial, picks on strangers. Especially strangers of the female gender. I was a stranger and a female; a typical low hanging fruit. It took a few months for him to get acquainted to both my face and voice. I am no longer threatening to him. In fact, he drawls a “hiya!” in a heavy Scottish accent whenever I pass him by.

Brian*, his son, nostalgically remembers his father as a family man. A true Scot. Before being admitted at this care home, he had taken care of his agarophobic wife and autistic daughter. He always looked out for them. He defended them and shielded them from the world.

With the straps of his boots, trudging from the Scotrail company to his home every other day, he looked out for them.  It came as a shock to the family when the tentacles of Alzheimer’s disease started eating at their beloved dad’s mind.

Alzheimer’s is a debilitating illness. It threatens to steal the person from themselves and from those around them. The decline in mental capacity is not only slow but sure. Medications oftentimes only slow the progress of the disease but not reverse it.

It starts differently for everyone. Forgetfulness being a classic symptom. Then a total inability to make independent day to day choices. It is a traumatic experience to watch someone you hold dear and near become a shadow of their former selves mentally speaking.

I have been here for a while now and every day I walk a mile in the shoes of my residents, it hurts my toes in several different spots.

When Graeme left for the nursing home, a void in the shape of his heart was left in that palatial home in Falkirk, Edinburgh. A void that shows in the frequency of visits from Graeme’s immediate and extended family. A void that is filled with silent understanding of what’s best at this point. A silence I could cut into and serve a chunk for breakfast.

The light in his eyes shine every time a family member visits. Everything changed with the dawn of the Covid-19 pandemic. Families had to stay away. Staffs wore Personal Protective Equipment (PPEs) and the familiar faces were buried in masks and visors. I was worried sick that his anxiety would be heightened.

To worsen a bad situation, Graeme contracted Covid-19. For a resident who moves unhindered from place to place, this was a major challenge for us. He was asymptomatic. Not even a cough. He had been diagnosed on a routine examination of all residents after one contracted it.

How they managed to get a throat and nasal swab from the able and mighty Graeme is a mystery I’m yet to unravel.

With a right-sided stoop due to scoliosis, Graeme shuffled along the unit without a care in the world. Nothing changed for him. Not even the novel Coronavirus was enough to dampen his spirits. Still he purposely rearranged furniture from one end of the corridor to the other. Still he transferred the cherry blossom-colored throw pillows from the Day Lounge to different bedrooms if they were open. Still he made a big fuss at personal care. That was our Graeme. Unbowed.

With Covid-19 restrictions, it has been a while since he last saw his family. Especially Brian, his son. Whenever he calls to find out about his Papa, we tell Graeme that Brian was on the phone for him. ” Oh aye!” He offers again in that exquisite Scottish drawl.

Last weekend however, Brian and his daughter brought toiletries and assorted chocolates for the staffs and residents in my unit. We encouraged Graeme to stand on the balcony so that they could see him.

He stood at the balcony, looked at the two and just when we thought he might actually register some recognition, he turned to a stuffed bunny that lay unattended on the couch. He picked it and went back to the Day Lounge. The perfect organiser. Always fixing everything to its place.

The memories and moments created with his family have fallen into the sofa cushions of time. So have the numberless conversations and the belly laughs together. There they all lie, in time, cataloguing the past and hopefully mapping out the future.

Time, I have learnt, does not offer any consolation to the declining mental capacity for dementia patients. Time for them is a vacuum filled with bits and pieces of a past that seems so long ago and a present that is held together in shaky ribbons and shoe strings.

I was afraid he would pick on me again. He didn’t. My soft voice, though wrapped up in a 3-ply face mask he still recognised. My eyes though hidden under a visor, still held his gaze and silently reassured him that we all were there for him.

The unforseen challenge was protecting other residents while still encouraging his ‘moving with purpose .’ How do you enforce isolation in an advanced dementia unit? What is the color of the sky in isolation and barrier nursing within Dementia Units?

N and J in my shift were integral in containing the spread of the virus. Every 30 minutes they’d walk up and down the corridor with bottles of disinfectant wiping down all surfaces. Every nook and cranny of the unit got cleaned a million and one times over. Happiness Unit*, though unhappy from semi-isolation from the other units in the care home,was not only spotless but germ-free.

It has been a while now since he tested negative. We are still working with the two metres physical distancing rule. Not for him though. Patients with declining mental capacity do not have the ability to comprehend the restrictions. The onus falls on the staffs to do it for them. For everyone’s sake.

Yesterday was special nonetheless. I was seated in a corner of the dining room nimbly working on my nursing notes. He stood at the door, gingerly holding the doorknob of the dining room where I sat (many metres away) and looked at me. He raised those bushy eyebrows as he held my gaze. I offered a smile. No reaction. I offered another. Then another one.

“Nice teeth,” he declared as he doubled up and shuffled back to the corridor. Pardon me if I’m smiling too much today. I just have to show you my nice set of teeth.

* Names of people and places have been changed to protect the identity of individuals and places. This is for confidentiality purposes.

Moving House

Home is where the heart is even if you can’t remember which box you packed it in ~Anon

The thing they never told me about abroad was that there were no bodabodas and no mtu wa mkokoteni. And people generally minded their own businesses.

My move from Huntly where nothing ever happened to legendary was filled with potholesthe size of an adults and hiccupsas loud as God’s thunder. It was a Wednesday. Wednesdays are supposed to be lively. This wasn’t. There was no life in my soul. Though I had passed the OSCE exam and I was now a UKRN, I still felt inadequate. I badly wanted to leave and go to a city. Any city.

I had experienced subtle micro aggression and hidden racism that I was just about done. Done with having to realize that I’m black. Done with feeling like an executive pariah. I have always preferred open rebuke to passive aggressive comments. Those made my red blood boil.

The transfer couldn’t come at a better time.

TIP : If you want to work in the UK, I propose you tell your recruitment agency that your like to be in a city or a major town. Small rural towns will suffocate you.

I packed my few belongings and hired a taxi to Aberdeen city. I had to do with the curious looks from my flatmates. Talking of whom, they had accused me of every evil under the sun. I had stayed with two couples. One Polish, the other a blend of Scottish and Litvia. The latter had their own en suite room, the Polish shared a bathroom with me.

This is where I came face to face with the glaring differences between housing options back home and in the United Kingdom. In Kenya, multiple occupancy houses are not a thing!

We had a duty rota to clean the common areas. The stairwell, the living room (which I never used), kitchen and in my case the bathroom I shared with the next door couple. This is where I had to learn to use a vacuum cleaner and a washing machine. A girl from my kind of background in Kenya had understandably never used either of the two.

As a matter of fact, they come in so many variations that I’m still learning how to operate them. I remember an impatient knock on my bedroom door one day after my night shift. It was Mrs.Mazur from next door.

She spoke in the most heavily Polish-accented English. From the tidbits I could gather, the bathroom needed to be scrubbed clean and I was being insensitive by sleeping during the day when the poor little bathroom was dirty. It was malicious to sleep when baby bathroom needed cuddles and a lullaby from mama. How could I!

I knew that it was not my turn to clean but either hers or her serial smoking husband. She gesticulated in angry frustration at me. Partly for achieving little communication because of the language barrier and partly because I looked unperturbed by her mannerisms.

Striding past her, I bounced down the stairs to the announcement board and brought her the tiny piece of paper that we called a duty rota. Calligraphically hand written there was today’s date and her name against it. She grabbed the rota from me and furiously returned to her room. I could hear her murmuring to her husband.

Poor man, I thought; that woman will kill him before the cigarettes do. She has a carcinogenic fiery tongue. Had I been my former self, mine would have clashed with hers and lit a fire. But this was a new me. Jesus had the wheel–and my tongue.

It takes an hour or so on the train from Huntly to Aberdeen city. It takes three decades and a prayer on the taxi. My cab driver was a chap who’d seen better days. He however knew a little about the world and over the staccato of the BBC Radio 2, we had a chat.

Cab Driver: Wherabouts yu’ from?

Me: Kenya

CD: Oh nice lassie yu’ run?

Me: (Giggling) Yes, for my life.

CD : (Laughing with me) That’s fine. We all run for our lives.

He noticed the luggage and the move and asked where I was headed to. At 70 years, he highly recommended the move. He said and I quote, ” this area has more sheep than people. A wee lassie need people.”

We can’t argue with our elders, can we?

The taxi rank is in the East side of Aberdeen bus station next to the busy train station. I needed to go to the West side where the bus station is. He could not help me any further without risking significant fines. I was therefore on my own. Just me, three boxes of baggage the size of a teenager and a backpack carefully strapped on my back.

This is where I missed watu wa mkokoteni. They make life easier. They help you carry everything and if you’re nice, they can carry you. Especially when it rains and Nairobi morphs into one big swimming pool. My father has been a porter for many years. He carries goods (not people Ha ha) in Wakulima market in Nairobi.

I missed him and his buddies. I wanted him to refer a good person to me to help me carry my burden from East to West. But this was Aberdeen. The glittering city in summer. I had to tough it up and solve my dilemma.

The Megabus I had booked was to leave for Edinburgh in an hour’s time. I had enough time. There was one problem though. The trolley I got from the train station had crooked, locked front wheels. It could also accommodate only two boxes at a time.

I had to leave one behind. However this is the UK. If a box or bag is left unattended for long, people will call the police and it may be taken away and treated as you’d treat a bomb. See something, say something is the slogan here.

I had horror images of being led away by mean looking Scotland Yard officers. Screaming at the top of my lungs that all I did was move house. Then I’d be sentenced to prison for causing public security concern. Then because I wasn’t built for a cage, I’d die, be buried and then my epitaph would read : She died for her baggage.

Thinking was not going to help me. I took a leap of faith and dragged the trolley. My blood alone propelled it forwards. Across a sea of people of all colours I pushed my evil trolley. I packed my boxes near the bus terminus. Luckily the people had “seen something and done something ” as the security messages blared from the different announcement boards.

The something they had seen was a struggling girl. And the something they did was leave her alone. I made a second trip and a third one to return the trolley. I was knackered. Why was I the only one moving house? Someone is always moving house in Nairobi. I missed seeing people move house!

The bus sauntered into Edinburgh bus station a few minutes shy of one O’clock. I was in contact with the owner of the Airbnb where I had booked a short stay.

I was only 15 minutes away going by the Google maps. I missed our Kenyan bodabodas. The rider would have lifted my luggage onto his boda, then somehow fitted me onto the same boda and off we would have left for the Airbnb. Ah the small joys of Kenya!

If it can’t fit onto a bodaboda, it can’t fit anywhere else.

I needed a taxi. Again. Edinburgh Cabs is the recommended taxi operator. I phoned and asked for a black taxi. A black taxi is not only black in color but also bigger. Can carry me and my sins.

Unfortunately for me, the taxis are not allowed to enter the bus station. One must access them from across the road where they have a cabstand. My driver called to let me know he had arrived. I had no trolleys. I was alone, again. My three boxes helplessly looked at me from the ground. Like a firstborn that knew his mum had hit below the rock bottom.

People walked around me into different directions and some gave me deserved look-at-this-poor-girl looks. Just what I needed. I approached a black bus station attendant and asked him for a trolley. He had been staring at me for a while now.

He smiled and in the most beautiful West African accent, he informed me they had no need for trolleys at the station. The baritone intonation of his voice sounded like the beats of Burna boy. Or Wizkid. Okay Pick any West African musician you know. My phone wouldn’t stop ringing. The taxi driver had the patience of a hungry infant.

He excused himself and helped me carry every last piece of luggage to the taxi. He is from Gambia he informed me. Getting a helping hand for the first time was golden. I half cried. He was the shining star in my dark skies. I tried giving him a token of appreciation. He politely declined. He just wanted to help me he said. I should have hugged him.

The cab driver was nasty. He shamelessly asked if I was carrying my life’s savings in those boxes. Retrospectively, that was hilarious! I didn’t however understand his whining. I had clearly informed the operator that I was moving luggage. There was no need for Mr.Cab to be salty with me.

He complained for the entire 15 minutes and I was too jubilant for that Gambian gentleman to be annoyed. The charge was seven pounds but I gave him a twenty and told him to keep the (insert a profanity) change.

My host was Russian. The tallest man I’ve ever seen. His girlfriend was petite. A lovely combination. I have blurry recollection of his name but I know it had a slav at the end. Somebodyslav from Moscow, Russia. In Edinburgh for 10 years and now virtually a Brit. He missed Mother Russia and hoped to take his girlfriend to see his parents soon.

I rated him a clean five stars on Airbnb. He was warm, his girlfriend a perfect host. She showed me how to use an oven to cook and warm meals. The closest I had been to an oven all my life was while watching Let’s Cook program on TV back home. Back in Huntly, my flatmates expected me to know. After all, the earth is flat and we all come from similar backgrounds, yes?Ha ha

I was not even aware cans of beans and fish could be opened using a can opener. First, we didn’t use canned foods back home and second, if we ever needed it opened, we could always use knives to piece the edges at the top of the can.

She showed me places to shop and even recommended an African shop around. Compared to the reception I’d had at Huntly, this was incomparable. It was life giving.

It would take me a week and a half to get new accommodation. There are no signs indicating houses as ‘VACANT’ like I was used to back home.

I had to use my phone to download different applications where tenants meet landlords . I missed waltzing into a building and asking ” huku kuna vacant?” Translation: is there a vacant here? A vacant is a loose word we use to denote an empty house for rent.

I reminisced how even if there was no vacant in that particular building, the tenants would guide me to available vacants within the area. Again, the joys of Kenya that I took for granted!

Recently I went to the African shop that was recommended. I needed plantains. I saw the Airbnb from across Gorgie road, Edinburgh. I felt like passing by and saying a massive hello to Somebodyslav and her girlfriend.

No Students in Class

I’m trying to be the person I was too lazy to be yesterday.

Shifted and subsequently broken. That was the state my heart was in when the airbus kissed the skies away from Kenyan airspace and dauntingly tilted towards Abu Dhabi.

I told myself that I wanted to go anywhere. Anywhere but home. I wanted to be away. To rethink, re-strategize and reboot. I was unsure of many things but one; I needed to go back to school. I needed my Bachelor’s Degree in Nursing. Now I have to tell you a story.

Little Red Riding Hood

Once upon a time, the Nursing Council of Kenya ( NCK) decided to have a conflicting educational system for nurses in the country. NCK, which is the Regulatory body for Nurses in Kenya, felt that it was the most beautiful thing to train nurses as Certificate holders, Diploma holders and then Degree holders.

To garnish the uninspiring system, NCK trained diploma Registered Nurses for an entire 3.5 years, taught them the same thing they taught degree holders for 4 years in University, and then refused to have a scope of practice.

The employers, government and otherwise, then went to the job market in search for nurses. They found degree holders but felt they couldn’t pay them for their high and mighty papers. So they shopped for diploma and certificate holders who could equally do what the degree nurses would do.

After all, the market was flooded with nurses. And any nurse is a nurse as long as they do what nurses should do. I do not know what that means leave me alone. NCK did not learn even after multiple attempts from professional bodies and unions to try cushion the future of the Nursing profession in Kenya.

“Let us train them all,” NCK reasoned. ” It has always been like that,” they chorused like well-fed baby yodas. “The employer can decide whether to employ the certificate holder or the degree holder,” they justified.

The brains behind degree nursing had had a dream. A dream where the value of the profession extended beyond Kenyan borders to global standards. A dream that students in high school would someday want to become nurses by enrolling for degree courses. That nursing would regain her lost glory and stop being viewed as a course of last resort.

A dream that nursing in Kenya wouldn’t be viewed as a subordinate branch of medicine but an equal player. That dream was in part transitioning the education system of the nurse. But NCK, just like the big bad wolf never changed.

Just like the big bad wolf, in the 20th Century, NCK won’t scrap off Certificate nursing training whose requirement is a D (or something similar) in KCSE and won’t create opportunities for employers to prefer nurses with advanced education. Baby Yoda belched with satisfaction at the confusion he created.

Then along strutted Little Red Riding Hood. She failed to understand the malignant injustice in the Nursing education system in Kenya. She especially felt that higher education should reflect in a wider scope of practice and a more defined scheme of service.

Higher education, she surmised, brought massive shifts in the world of possibilities. It was exhilarating. She saw a future whose direction she’d love to be part of. This borderline orgasmic determination scared some and inspired hope in others.

The science and art of caring for the sick was an empty clanging cymbal if it couldn’t work for the benefit of not only patients, but the nurses themselves. Laws that break the very backs of the taunted frontline workers are antithesis of what nursing embodies.

Little Red Riding Hood got an opportunity to test her theory. She enrolled for her BsN by God’s grace somewhere in the United Kingdom. This was in the year of our Lord 2020. Covid-19 was the king and social distancing the new gig. She was me. I was her. The End.

To the present…

I have been to numerous classes thanks to my interesting educational journey. What I have never considered is online learning. That is what Covid-19 has shoved down my throat. Perhaps it should be easy because I’m a qualified and registered nurse already but hand to Jesus and the choir of heaven, it is not.

It is even more convoluted when you’re as tech-ignorant as I am. I pride myself in having a fairly stable memory. I should remember my Computer classes not so many moons ago. However, the outlines are clear but they fade at the edges leaving blurs and smudges. Everything gets dark after that.

I need an IT boyfriend . It is urgent. Do you have a tech-savvy boyfriend? I need him. Sharing should be caring or something like that. This is where girl power comes in Mother Teresa. Loan me your geek boyfriend for the period I’m in school. Ha ha. I got you.

Two days ago I submitted my assignment and instead of posting it in the board where my lecturers can see it, I posted it in the Frequently Asked Questions’ section. It is only the patience of the lecturers holding me together. Like raggedy pieces of duct tape and a shoestring, they daintly keep me in place.

Blessings is my virtual learning classmate and she keeps asking where the assignment section is located. Ollie wants to formulate and answer his own questions. A certain Olayinka won’t fix his microphone during live class sessions.

The live sessions have become my favourite. They are gorgeous. See, we have two lead lecturers. M and Dr. P. For the entire semester of Summer 2020, if they say jump I must ask how high.

The time is 1200hrs BST ( 1400hrs EAT). M introduces the lesson and everyone has their mic on. She has a hard time getting the class to order. Everyone wants to say “hi everyone .” Daniel, who has joined us three minutes after the start of live recording also wants to chant ,”hi everyone.”

M and Dr.P briefly outline the learning objectives then M takes the lead. M is in Surrey and Dr.P is in London.I don’t know whether they know but their students are there just not there.

Solomon’s hand has been up for the last several minutes and M keeps asking him if he has a question but he won’t talk. He will not put his hand down either. We have to learn to live with him.

M is saying something about Harvard referencing style. She talks about sending us a link to learn how to cite them right. Charles has his microphone on. He is murmuring to some femeo that ,”aha, I can see them now.” Okay Charles we would like to see you too please turn the camera on.

M : Charles could you please turn your microphone off? I will allow time for Q and A at the end of the session.

Charles: ( To femeo) ahaa, now it looks good.

M: I’m sorry class let me mute all microphones.

I have forgotten what she was saying. Did she say the author’s name and the year of publication must be within brackets or was it just the year? I hope to catch up.

M goes on. She asks Dr.P if the screen she is sharing is legible. Dr.P rightly tells her that it is not and we would all benefit if the text was enlarged. Here comes graduated trouble.

M is as naive with technology as I am. Dr.P’s silence is too loud. Apart from Emmanuel who saves the day, we are technologically as tasty as plagiarism. Emmanuel reminds me of a classmate I had in my renal nursing program, Bundi.

Bundi was the genius of technology. He helped set up Power Point presentations, linked them to wondrous YouTube videos and still managed to screen in and screen out presentations. Emmanuel is my new Bundi.

Some child is crying in the background and I can’t tell whose baby it is. Neither can M. M just wants the microphone off. That happens. Almost immediately, the cursor on my screen moves and there is someone doodling on the screen. They are drawing tiny blue circles on the screen and M is ten milliseconds away from holding her forehead in exasperation. She doesn’t.

M : Please class note that we all can see things happening on the screen. Please do not touch your screen when on live session. Please try to not play with your mouse pads.

Ha ha M. I miss real classrooms. Where I would sit at the back and pass wiseass notes to my classmates as the lecturer talked. Whoever is drawing is officially my desk mate.

Eventually we get it and the lesson is halfway over. We pause for a quick Q and A. A girl is asking a question about some activities in Unit 7. People of God, Unit seven is not until three weeks from today. Pray tell me how did we get here?

Though she gets her answer, Dr.P is a quintessential Brit who tells her without telling her to calm her heels down. Oh you should have seen the smirk on P’s face. It froze the sun.

I have been dying to ask about word count. I am horrible at word counts. I always get it wrong. Dr.P is guiding me but all I hear is stuccato because someone’s cup is filling with water (or alcohol) somewhere. Children of Papa God, how hard is it to turn your microphone off though?

I have to ask Dr.P to say it again. This time, I am the one that interrupts it. There is a flying beetle that’s found it’s way into my living room. I left the window half open to let in some light. The early summer beetles have been dying to have a cuppa coffee with me.

A cuppa when in the middle of a lesson sounded like a beautiful idea so it buzzed its way into my living room. Wings tiny as a baby’s finger, he fluttered on in front of my face and I used my hand to swat him away.

That movement somehow touched my mouse-pad and the camera came on. P had to pause and watch me fight my monsters with the microphone off. What a spectacle!

Veronica wants to ask questions and “seek clarification ” on everything. She also wants to “clarify” what M and Dr.P have already said. My brain has taken a walk and I want to follow it. There is something about a teacher’s voice that just takes the pain and grind of life away.

A teacher’s voice is the blood running through the vessels of peace, love and harmony. The intonation of the teacher’s voice; as s/he explains a concept is a melodious tune to our hearts. A teacher’s voice cannot be ignored. It is also a cajoling lullaby. So I doze off somewhere along the lesson.

I’m startled when my earphones fall off and for some reason I am thinking about Samuel L. Jackson. I think he would be a badass teacher.This is why they record these lessons. Samuel L. Jackson would record them too.

We must access them if we are to pass the module. By the time we chant ” bye everyone,” Ollie still isn’t convinced that his answers are not related to the questions asked in the assignment.

Charles and his femeo left the session at the 47th minute and Solomon’s hand is still up. He says nothing. Seen. Not heard. Does his voice sound like Samuel L.Jackson’s? Is his voice the love song of the nightingale and the lark who we can’t hear anymore?

Why is his hand up? I wish he could type his thoughts in the chatroom. He doesn’t. Like a sleuth he wanders in our online presence. He sees us but we can’t see him. His virtual hand however, remains up. I must go back to that recording.

The Golden Girl From Swansea

The Germans say that a person has learned much who has learnt how to die. In my line of work as a nurse, death is one dull dreary experience and I have interacted with it several times. My colleagues and I are always fighting it on behalf of our patients. The statistics have so far been overwhelming in our favour. Sometimes however, the thin curtain between life and the other side gets lifted and it is bye bye.

Never before in my career had death become all too familiar as when I started working with residents. The beauty of a close knit care home is the homely atmosphere.  Everyone knows everyone.  Some residents know the team and they can tell who didn’t come to work when. It is also very hard not to have some degree of emotional attachments with them.

Good nursing practice says to empathize with clients. This calls for walking a mile in their moccasins for a nurse to offer quality care. I wore pair of Maddy’s* snub-nosed blue shoes and they fit snugly. I didn’t didn’ttake a mile in them. I completed the whole race track and loved it. This 98-year old golden girl from Swansea leapt off the page like a catchy headline.

She had been living in the advanced dementia unit I worked in for an year before I was transferred there. I do not understand my nursing journey oftimes and I gave up trying. I had hoped to work in the special nursing unit but by some twist of fate, I was posted in the advanced dementia unit.

Mental health nursing, psychology and indeed psychiatry never tickled my fancy in nursing school. The memories I have are of my team and I at Mathari Mental Hospital in ward 6B where I had a glimpse of what diminished mental faculties can do to someone. It weighed heavily on my spirit like a little baby elephant and I eliminated mental health nursing as a career.

Indulge me a little. On our first day at the aforementioned ward in Mathari mental and referral hospital in Nairobi, Kenya, we met Ndung’u*. Thin as a string with eyes that could light up a room, he tried to be invisible most of the times. Ndung’u had perfected the art of being inconspicuous. In a populace of all types of mental illnesses, it paid to not be visible for the others. Whether this was a mannerism from him or an adaptation, we will never know.

He however chewed his tongue whenever he was not eating or talkingto the voices in his clean shavenhead. You could hear him chew his tongue. The whole world could hear him chew the tongue. Ndung’u approached Mary*, one of my group mates and said ,”sister nipee.” We were greenhorn student nurses wondering who we had wronged for us to be thrust in to a such a ward.

Perhaps having seen the scene that was about to be created a few times too many, the nurses on duty smiled as Ndung’u asked for this mysterious object from Mary.

We didn’t even know how to communicate with mentally ill patients leave alone give them stuff. In Kenya, mental illness is frowned upon. Schizophrenia to be specific is not even a mental illness; it is the result of witchcraft. Either that or the good ol’ mama and papa pastors will attribute it to a few episodes where the patient forgot to tithe.

This is the culture we were coming from. Theory in class had dispelled a slither of that belief but this is a reality that even the most learned need to grow into.

Ndung’u was adamant that Mary needed to give him something. With open palms that revealed dark undergrowth under the fingernails, head hung expectantly on his side and those pleading big black eyes, he paused from chewing his tongue and took his voice a decibel higher.

“Sister nipee, Sister nipee, Sister nipee!”he impatiently exclaimed. Mary asked Ndung’u what it is that he wanted as the rest of us tried to be cowardly strong behind Mary. We had heard tales of students getting beaten by the patients and nobody wanted to provoke anyone. Silent lambs in a lion’s den.

Ndung’u quipped like a baby by its mum ,” nipee kanyonyo kamoja. Niwekee hapa (pointing to his palm) nifinye.” Fellow patients laughed. We laughed. The nurses laughed. Ndung’u didn’t.

That awkward moment made me abhor mental health as a future area of speciality. Finding myself therefore in an advanced dementia unit was not going to be fun. Maddy changed it. At 98 she still believed in exercises. She liked stretching in her bed though it was almost impossible for her to do so. Age and other short stories.

It was my role to encourage her and help her complete her morning ritual.This was followed with a ,”cuppa nice, cold water.” Which she hungrily downed as the folds of saggy, wrinkled skin on her Caucasian face danced to every gulp. Maddy , though weak, used her Zimmer frame to use the toilet. She knew when she wanted to go and she was the most helpful resident I’ve ever met.

On this particular day, after administering medications, her alert-mat buzzer went off and I knew she had woken up.Maddy woke up every day at 9.30am. She was a clockwork. The mixed type of dementia had not taken that away from her.

The carers, N* and J* were with another resident and Maddy couldn’t wait. She was a high falls’ risk and that explains the alert-mat buzzer system. This alerted everyone that she was up ready to rock then roll.

“Good morning Maddy,” I pleasantly greeted.

“I want to wee-wee” she replied. She always said that whenever she wanted to have a short call.

Pushing the alert mat under the low profile bed, I silenced the alarm and stabilized her onto the Zimmer frame as we trudged to her toilet. She had partial sensorineural hearing loss and it was hard sometimes for her to hear what anyone was saying. She was too sweet however, that she always filled in the gaps the way she wanted; to fit the context.

Either that or my accent betrayed me. Ha ha. “Are you from Swansea?” She asked when we were having a shower. “No Maddy I am from Nairobi, Kenya” I reassured.

Maddy: Oh Swansea near the church? I am from Swansea too.

Me: No Maddy. Nairobi. Kenya. Africa.

Maddy : You should take me for the mass today. They sing good music. What’s the name of your husband? I might have seen him at the church in Swansea.

Me: Maddy (increasing the cadence of my voice, somehow adopting a British accent) I am not married. Do you know of a good man around? (I teased)

Her sunken ash grey eyes lit up. She must have managed to hear what I said. She looked at me long and hard as I oiled her lanky legs and declared, ” you have a medium bum you should get a good man.”

I know I’m not supposed to laugh but that sent me rolling on the floor. She joined me in the laughter and started a sing song ” medium bum, medium bum, you have a medium bum”

Maddy : Margaret has a medium bum.

Me : My name is Catherine not Margaret.

Maddy : Margaret has a medium bum, medium bum…

Oh well, you can’t say I didn’t try, right?

Maddy spent days in the lounge or in the garden or simply lying on her bed. She enquired frequently about the days of the week and no matter what you said, it was always a Tuesday two seconds later.

Tuesdays were pension days and she loved going to the post office to collect her pension.

Even having lived with mixed dementia for a few years, she never lost her bourgeoisie. She wore well-pressed attire complete with matching shoes. Her daughter Sheila* always provided these. She would never leave her room without her white pearls dangling from her slender, furrowed neck. This would be accesorised with a hand bag which she called a carrier bag and a pocket of disposable tissues slipped under the sleeve of her sweater of the day. Our prim and proper Maddy from Swansea.

But I did…

Staffs new and old adored her. She had a kind or funny thing to say about anyone or anything. A carer could be tucking her in bed at night and she would enquire when the carer was going to bed themselves. She would offer us to sit and eat with her at meal times. She didn’t understand why we kept walking about and helping other people eat!

On the day she complained of rigors, I had spent a few hours of my day with her. Palms feathery and mild as the clouds, I lifted them to my masked cheeks and reassured her that we were doing everything in our power for her to be alright.

Earlier in the day we had had a loving conversation.

Maddy : I wish it was summer already

Me: Summer is here Maddy and I’d love to take you to the garden.

Maddy : (at the top of her lungs) There’s a tiger in the garden!

Since December last year her health had significantly deteriorated. The dementia robbing her of what magic of life was still within. Her ability to perform a few of her own duties totally impaired. She couldn’t stay in the day lounge with other residents without falling asleep ten seconds later. I believe as we age, so do we want to take naps.

She sometimes would manage to break through the fogginess of this abysmal cloud of mental decline and express herself. Our Maddy was still in there somewhere.

This was one such day and I’m glad I held her hands in my gloved palms and listened to her. I still feel the heat of her palms piercing through my face mask. She pushed away her teddy and clutched her baby pink soft blanket and told me just how cold it was. This was the only time I saw her in tears. It ate at my heart and I couldn’t wait to have the antibiotics Dr.Jill* had prescribed over the phone ( thanks to the fear and restrictions surrounding Covid-19 pandemic) ; and have Maddy start on them.

The paracetamol I had already given her was yet to kick in and she was having it very rough. Maddy was coming down with a chest infection and I had proved it through a set of vital signs and a phlegmy cough that I had not witnessed all day until now. Until now when the sun was hauntingly lingering in the British summer skies daring man and beast to move. It harshly bounced off the walls of the care home and flatteringly kissed the petals of the snowdrops that shyly looked to the ground.

Though on End of Life Pathway, Maddy’s demise broke my heart in a million little pieces. I never got to be there with her as she passed on. She transitioned to the other side on the very same day I got my Covid-19 positive results.

Yesterday I went back to our unit’s gallery. I saw her. She held her teddy and with cheeks as bright as her soul, she smiled. From her heart, she smiled. I fingered this photo of hers with immense nostalgia. I caught a tear that threatened to ruin the lapel of my uniform. I missed her once more.

It is a habit that photos of deceased residents get discarded after a while but I don’t see Maddy’s going anywhere. She was loved by staffs and relatives alike. She was loved for her nimble thoughts when they happened. She was loved for her witty sing songs.

She was loved even when the fangs of dementia clutched her brain and rained painful hallucinations on her. This golden girl from Swansea was loved even when this dying and jaded cold stare of Covid-19 robbed us of the little time we had left with Maddy.

* Names have been changed to protect identity of the mentioned people. This is for confidentiality purposes.

Through My Covid-19 Eyes

I think more than anything, I wanted some form of positive vibrations.

I didn’t plan to be a nurse. It is a fact I never shy away from. In fact, my mother had earlier in life written me off in any medical course. I had been an angry, impatient and particularly rebellious little girl.

Mother dear couldn’t wrap her head around my lack of manners. She kept moaning in tired resignation, ” you’ll never be a nurse or a doctor. Because if a patient presents with a headache you’ll inject medicine into their heads.”

Years later I’d discover that she wanted to be a nurse herself so I’m here living her best life. Parents!

This noble profession prepared me for several things in life. It especially taught me to be flexible and accommodating. It is gloriously refreshing when I can swap my shifts with a colleague and get an extra day off. I did exactly that on that fateful Wednesday the 13th of May 2020.

As I stepped from my apartment, the late spring freshness wafted into my nostrils like fresh roses. I closed my eyes and took a deep breath and held it in for a precious few seconds smiling to myself. Gingerly, I made my way across the road and onto a lean concrete pavement that wound itself across the sleeping Dalry Cemetery in Edinburgh city heading off to my workplace.

Instinctively, I stopped near a once white tombstone and gazed towards an imposing Scottish spire. Its gothic stained glassy top shone in a beautiful spectre of a million dazzling rainbow lights behind the burning golden ball of the morning sunrise. In childlike wonderment my eyes glistened as iridiscent rays stretched over this tombstone. Whoever lay here must be a happy soul. He attracts the morning sky.

I shook myself from this unending, stupefying reverie and reminded myself that at this rate, I was going to be late for work. Determinedly, I trudged forward and a sense of foreboding suddenly gripped my heart. Just as fast, it left me. Momentarily, this got me very puzzled. Perhaps it was because everyone else is fighting Covid-19 one way or the other. Perhaps because like many other frontline workers, I am very nervous.

I consoled myself knowing that we didn’t have any Covid-19 positive case at the care home I worked in.

I spent the day with two health care assistants who are wonderful at what they do. For the period I’ve worked in care homes, I have enjoyed the magic of team spirit. Being a team leader during a crisis needs you to believe in your team. To have an outsized sense of possibility whipped together with a diminished capability for pessimism. We had to pull through our 12 hour shift.

But even the best laid plans go haywire, don’t they?

I had a day off on Thursday and Friday, I was meant to go back to work on the weekend. I woke up feeling lethargic on Thursday morning. Through my Covid-19 eyes, this is my zero day.

Day Zero

After the shower, my neck itched. Either I’m suddenly allergic to my shower gel or something is wrong with my towel. I decide the towel is guilty without letting it have its side of the story. I popped it immediately into the dirty linen basket. I would get to it later. I do not know why my throat is so dry. My lips are cracking and the Vaseline lip moisturizer isn’t helping. I think I’m coming down with a sore throat. I can’t stop clearing my throat.

Day One

It is my hair wash day. Oh I love washing my kinky curls. I have a certain unhealthy obsession with washing my hair. I relish the scent of my deep conditioning cream. I savor with orgasmic delight the different fumes of the flowers and oils that make up the natural hair moisturizer. Just that today I can’t smell it. It surely isn’t expired? I check again. Expiry date is sometimes in 2022. That’s odd. I tell myself. I can’t stop clearing my throat either. And is it me or is this place getting hot by the minute?

My appetite is almost non existent. It is now 1307 hours BST (1507hrs EAT). I have not had anything to eat. I make a cheese omelette and it miraculously has no smell. I am at peace with that because I like eggs just not how they smell. However, they are tasteless! Whatever games my body is playing on me they have to stop. My neck continues to itch. I apply some antihistamine cream and make a mental note to pass by Lidl to buy some skin-friendly detergents.

By 1900hours the itch is gone. The constant clearing of my parched throat has been replaced by a deep hacking cough. I feel cold alternating with hotness of body. It is officially a ping pong. Hot cold. Hot. Cold. Cold. Hot. I have this aura of darkness around me.

Day Two

I wake up at 2.30 am covered in buckets of disturbingly drab sweat. I do not sweat easily. My Zumba instructor, before the Covid-19 pandemic, kept pushing me harder than everyone else because he thought I was not giving it my all. I did. I always do. My sweat glands are just too fussy and they play hard to get. You can’t easily excite them. Until tonight.

Perhaps it is because of the dream I’ve just had. In this dream I’m strapped onto a ventilator and I keep trying to ask the attending nurse to let me see my heart’s rhythm on the cardiac monitor. The nurse is busy splitting tubes to use on the next patient. Come on, I silently pray, I need to see that rhythm. I am not very good with cardiology so I want to ask my Critical Care Nurse instructor ( mentor) what in the world that rhythm is. But the nurse is very busy and I wake up.

There are smouldering embers in my throat and someone is intentionally fanning them to life. I suddenly cough again and this time it hurts like broken promises. I go to the kitchen and get some warm water from my mini flask. It soothes the throat albeit temporarily.

I had to change pillows because the one I laid my hot head on was drenched in sweat. I love pillows. My bed has six pillows at any given time. Yes I need to hold something (until someone shows up) as I sleep come beat me. Some girls have boyfriends and husbands or partners. I have pillows.

I am working today. I head to the carehome with heart in my hand. Even the sun seems to have left my skies. It is ominously sulky. I don’t care how much workload I have today. All I know is I’m tired and my legs feel like pins and needles. From the calf muscles to the soles of my feet it feels like some fire ants are having a post lockdown party. I try stretching and running as I go to work but I’m as uninspired as a politician after elections.

The News

Just after washing my hands, on my way to my locker to get changed, the manager summons me to the office. She stands two metres away and tells me one of the residents had turned Covid-19 positive. This is the resident I had been worried about (she had read my documentation and reports and everything a nurse should write in case of concerns) on Wednesday.

Residents refer to the people being cared for in a care home. I am saying this for the sake of Dr.Mary, my close friend who thinks a resident is a doctor undergoing his or her residency program in a hospital. It is a homonym Doc. Tembea dunia Mary, tembea ha ha.

I immediately tell Nurse manager R what I’ve been feeling. She makes the right call and tells me to go back home, self-isolate and phone NHS 24. Now, fellow Kenyans, NHS 24 is a phone service for the national health service of United Kingdom. You get to consult a doctor on phone and you may be advised to go to the hospital or something like that.

The Phonecall

It took about 5minutes for the doctor to get back to me. I explained my symptoms and she dropped the bombshell unapologetically. “All your symptoms are suggestive of Covid-19 infection especially now that you’ve been caring for someone who has turned positive.” She goes ahead to outline things I should do including a test to confirm but I’m not listening. Suddenly I can’t breathe through my nose because it feels congested. She keeps asking if I’m there . I am there. Just not there.

The Test

I didn’t handle it well. I didn’t handle it well at all. It feels like scratching your brain through the nose. It feels like being forced to gag on your tongue. When they trained me how to collect the swab for Covid-19, they didn’t mention it would make me squeamish too.

There is a beautiful aspect nonetheless. We have a Drive thru testing centre. It is for key workers and healthcare professionals exposed to Covid-19 in need of testing. You get swabbed while in the taxi. The Council (government) organises for your transport from your house and back. Therefore swabs are taken whilst in the car.

But Satan had other plans. The taxi never showed up in my case. They only offered half-hearted apologies an hour after I had already undergone the test! I booked my own Uber and was careful to stay masked and come straight to the house after the test.

I keep praying that I didn’t expose the two Uber drivers I used that day. I didn’t even know where the test centre was. I got lost and kept circling it until a kind missus directed me. Story for another day.

Day Three

Self isolation ongoing. I feel very tired. My joints ache including these tiny finger joints. The pins and needles feeling intensify on my legs. I was too tired to exercise. I slept for ages. I struggle to breathe through my nose. It is blocked. My brain automatically wants me to use my mouth. However I know if I do so I may never get better.

I keep saying to myself: the nose is for breathing and the mouth is for talking. This is the mantra that saves me. I repeated it the entire duration of my isolation. I wasn’t having this virus change things.

I know I have Covid-19 even if the results are not yet out. This is no normal flu or cold. I confide in Dr.Mary. She tells me I’m overthinking though I know she is playing safe. On one hand she is my friend and her unwritten job description is to make me feel sweet in this unforgiving world. On the other hand, she is a paediatrician and she knows better. Gotcha Mary make up your mind! Doctor or friend? Haha

I also confide in another friend who’s like a big brother. He prays for me and tells me to stop imagining things. I guess friends generally don’t want to help us in our journeys of overthinking. They just want us to be calm and see the best in everything.

However, these two friends were wrong and I think they knew it. They just didn’t want to confront their fears. After all, they hadn’t met anyone close to them who’s Covid-19 positive. They sure didn’t want pretty lil Cate to be the first one! But I have done them the honors.

Day Four

I still teach Hypertension on Facebook. I pretend all is well. I can’t allow this to stop me from writing. Honestly if there is one thing God gave me as a gift, not only to the world but to myself, is writing. Writing keeps me from going nuts. Writing helps me go nuts safely. Writing saves me from myself. Writing calms down the voices that would otherwise be too loud inside me. Informative writing aimed at sharing knowledge is borderline orgasmic to me.

The Results

That is when the birds sung but I couldn’t hear them.


I didn’t handle it well either. I posted on Facebook right when most of my Kenyan friends were rubbishing the Ministry of Health’s daily briefings. They said and I quote, “I’m yet to see or hear of anyone who’s Covid-19 positive. Kwani where is the government getting all these numbers from?”

I posted that to, one, make people know Covid-19 is not an imagination and two, help myself process it.

I had to pull it down. The curiosity was from outer space. The ignorance in how people handled it too much for me to bear. More than the toll the virus has on everyone, the fear and stigma and generalized doom will be the end of us.

I remember listening to Chris Cuomo (CNN Prime time News Anchor and brother to New York City Governor Andrew Cuomo) when he had the virus.

He had intimated that the virus wants you to sleep and lie down for it to thrive. So he had to move and work out no matter how he felt. He had to do deep breathing exercises no matter the resistance in the airways. I decided to be Chris Cuomo. Just the female version. Without the money and definitely without the experience.

I ChrisCuomod my body. I even managed to do push ups. Two and a half and now I want an Olympic medal. Or a Head of State Commendation or a Medal of Honor, come on folks, get me a medal will you? The fact that the second one is done while I’m half alive doesn’t count. The baseline is that it gets done and I manage the remaining half by collasping on this old grey carpet that needs vacuuming asap. I danced Zumba. I also tried jumping jacks. Youtube became my darling. Thank God for accessible and affordable internet in the UK.

You should have seen me arms raised high above my head, neck straight like an experienced swan; balancing on the balls of my feet as I deeply breathed in and out. In then out. Then cough like the world was coming to an end. Cough some more. Consistency is the key here, so I coughed my lungs out.

I’ve done more series of exercises in my period of isolation than I’d ever done before. This was purposeful. The possibility of deterioration and death were lingering at the back of my mind. More ChrisCuomo to me yay!

I had lengthy talks with the virus. I reminded it that my body is a temple of the Holy Spirit and that it can’t accommodate both light and darkness– my body, not the virus Karen. So I gave it an ultimatum. I told it to push me down for the period I am in isolation because that’s all it had. It responded by giving me more rigors. I shook like a twig in the wind. I was as hot as I was cold.

It sent me a memo in the form of blinding headaches, constipation with zero appetite. It fired off messages in the shape of deeper and more frequent bouts of continuous cough. It sent me to my knees with crushing joint pains. Everything that can hurt hurt.

The virus cackled maniacally and intensified pain in my throat. My nose suddenly had a river of life that never ran dry. My disposable tissues had nothing on it. I wrote ‘more tissues’ as what I needed most when manager R asked me for a shopping list. She brought boxes upon boxes of them. These babies should last me till eternity. Hehehe. The virus was deciding how I lived my life.

I had moments of extreme sadness. I wanted my mother. I also wanted to sleep and be told I’m going to be alright. I hated being alone in a foreign country. I wanted my neighbors. Why am I single? I wondered. I felt ugly. I hated my dry lips. I wanted people to talk to me but I also didn’t want to talk. The mental torment of this monster is beyond description.

I was grateful albeit begrudgingly to be single and live alone. I didn’t think I’d handle the thought of exposing other people. Glad I was to be away from my mum and dad who I’d expose to this virus. Happy my siblings were away from me.

I missed the sun. As if on cue, it dutifully rose every morning before half past five. It peeped through my bedroom window, mocking my sadness. I opened the curtains to allow it in. I badly needed to see the sun, my flaming ball of orange every spring morning. I wanted to gaze at the feathery blue skies. I wanted to see other people.

I used paracetamol 6-8hourly because of the fever and rigors as advised. I also bought a mouthwash which I used to gargle and this greatly eased the pain and discomfort in my throat.

I had to rehydrate too. I downed numberless gallons of lemon,ginger and honey concoction. Being a renal nurse only complicated matters for me. I started a fluid balance chart for myself. Stop laughing…I recorded my input and output. I watched the color of my pee and panicked one morning when it was deeply saturated. The only thing I lacked was a urine measuring jug. Okay, now I am laughing.

Today, I watched the rising sun again. I paused again at the same spot –that tombstone. There was no foreboding.  Just a deep gratitude that the sun has kept shining.

Never before had the morning sun’s kiss felt so life-giving.

Tantalisingly, it curled beneath the rustling birch trees casting shadows so replescendent and gratifying that my heart melted. I almost touched it. The magic after a mirthful winter, the sweet smelling flowers along this path that permeates the air with warmth like that of a hug from a dear friend.

The Call To Nurses

Let your Better dreams fly you to your destiny.

Despite the constant din that drowns it, the human voice is the only sound able to penetrate the layers of any solid to reach its audience. The firm call to a listener constantly pushing , encouraging and sometimes seducing him to open that next door. This video e, even if a whisper, is loudest when it is speaking the truth.

It is that voice that I have always listened to. Amidst the bedlam that characterises modern living, the small still voice has always called out to me. Like an evening breeze wafting the smell of pine trees and romance to my nostrils. Like the stray rest of dawn that pierces through my drab window curtains every Summer morning. Unfazed. Unintimidated.

The sheer audacity to not only dream but wake up and pursue the same with an athlete’s single minded focus. Taking pleasure in the small acts of daily living. Of daily nursing procedures. Winding paths of my career and personal life never once deterred me from the goal labelled BETTER. Elusive sometimes it has been. But it has always felt like BETTER has always waited for me but at the same time hiding from me.

Better nursing standards. Better nursing roles. Better me and a better shot at credible educational opportunities. If you are like me, then the bodacious hum of the human voice is calling unto you and you want better. What better means is very subjective. My better came in the form of Nursing in the United Kingdom.

This article seeks to inform you of my footsteps at every stage. Fall right in and wear my rather ill-fitting shoes. Who knows, maybe to move this mountain, these little stones will count for something someday.


United Kingdom is one of the countries globally that has elevated the profile of a nurse. Unashamed of resting responsibilities on the nurse, UK has made virgin discoveries into what a nurse is when all limitations are withdrawn. Not only does she train her nurses, The Kingdom (Queendom maybe? Haha ) has gone ahead to let nurses practice within laid down schemes of service. If sexy was a profession, nursing in the UK is.

The possibilities are ad infinitum. From the clinical setup, to being a first assistant in theatre to aesthetic nursing, you’ll be limited by yourself and not the lack of empowerment. National Health Service (NHS) offers an aromatic buffet of options to sample from. Private hospitals and care homes challenge one to be more than they ever believed they could be.

The prerequisite is meticulous preparation. Deciding your basic motivation and diving deep into the process that becomes your new normal. Even now, I remind myself why I am in the UK. If money is the only motivation, then I should pack my bags and leave for a better economy. I am spoilt for choice anyway.

The pursuit for money is there though. Like haemoglobin, it is attached to every biconcave corpuscle of my red blood cells. How I decided to go about it led me to finally settle my heart in the land of her Majesty the Queen. But we are not talking about my escapades, are we?

Each choice you make carries with it a truckload of pros and cons. Every NO you say to a job offer allows you an opportunity to say a better YES when it happens. As a very loose translation if you’re interested in career progression, go for NHS hospitals. If you want some instant cash,maybe you want to go into the care home and private hospitals setup. Do your research. Ask people who are genuinely interested in informing you and not recruiting you.

For the nurses that hold specialised Higher National Diplomas, decline offers that do not place you in your area of speciality. Rejection is the very essence of acceptance. You must be able to reject. Be willing to be rejected too. Above everything else, what you’re bringing to the table is a wealth of skills and unmatched ocean of knowledge. You are complete and I want you to have the courage to realize it when negotiating for a job offer.

International English language testing system (IELTS)

This is undoubtedly the elephant in the room. It seeks to show that you have no idea what English as a language is. Yes I’m kidding. It tests you in Speaking, Reading, Writing and Listening.

Booking the correct exam is as critical as air is to a plant. Without it it wilts and dies. A sad, lonely plant. An unspoken plant. We will never know if it had babies. Oh poor plant…

UPDATE: The UKVI IELTS exam is no longer needed for visa processing. Just book the Academic IELTS. That is the update. Further information on found on the following website.

More is on

Talking of which, use this website above to create an account ( use your email) with which to communicate with the Nursing and Midwifery Council of the UK (NMC).

Competence Based Test Exam (CBT)

This is an online, computer generated exam. It is offered by Pearson Vue at 9 West Building in Westlands. Set at multiple choice questions of 120 in 2 hours, it covers the entire nursing process according to the NMC. The reason is because NMC UK does not have the ‘Diagnosis’ part of the Nursing Process. Think about Assessment, Planning, Implementation and Evaluation.

Please note however that the Nursing setup in United Kingdom differs in that you would need to do a different CBT exam for Midwifery if your target is to work in a Maternity set up.

Tip: Most recruitment agencies will not tell you about this. They will let you think you can work anywhere. As a midwife, ask about the Maternity department and how to get there. They even pay a higher starting salary!

You would need a different CBT if your goal is mental health Nursing. They managed to split the pie of nursing into small pieces which when whipped together, materialize into a giant pizza.

Get That Job

You really will need an agency to help you break down the contracts into small chewable bits. I will not recommend any agency at this point. I suggest you use your search engine to look for ‘Agencies that recruit nurses in UK.’ The choices are as many as the blinking stars in heaven.

Your agency should be able to advise you on where to live, the salary, the expectations and any other hidden clauses in your contract.

Decide where you want to live. England, Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland are what makes up the United Kingdom. Perhaps the most famous destination is London. Mainly because when one hears of UK while in Kenya, we all tend to think of London and nothing else. How mistaken I equally was!

Again, do you want to be a city darling or a rural town specialist? Take your time. Nurses are in high demand in UK and you’ll not regret taking your sweet time to sign a potential contract.

Do not be intimidated into accepting a job offer. The agents are trained to make their offers sound like the dreams you’ve always had. Majority are fantasies, despise them.

Verification of Academic Documents

With the account you registered at NMC, you can now approach the Nursing Council of Kenya (NCK) and ask them to send your papers to NMC, UK. This is done at a fee payable via mobile money wallet at the NCK offices. Once received, verification should take about two weeks. NMC will write to you with what is called a Decision Letter.

Decision Letter

It refers to official communique from the Nursing and Midwifery Council of United Kingdom inviting you to the UK to sit the next part of the registration exam called the Objective structured clinical exam (OSCE). You are even bound to get more serious job offers if you already have a Decision Letter!

I think we have been chained by people who went ahead of us so much that we do not know we can do this by ourselves. We have been shackled to the chains of local agencies which charge us an arm, a leg and a slice of the left kidney to help us get here. So imbued we are in the politics of ‘godfather’ that we forget the power that we possess in our very hands.

It is those cages that have you and I detained and deeply pained that I seek to break. You can do this.

Work Permit

After a job offer, you will get what is termed as a Certificate of Sponsorship (CoS). The CoS is a work permit allowing you to live and work in the UK. For the purposes of this blogpost, your work permit is issued under the General Occupation Shortage List. That qualifies you for a Tier 2 Visa. With the CoS, you can apply for Visa.

I reiterate the need for a good agency. The agency should facilitate all your visa fees by your employer. Perhaps this is where I mention that a credible A-rated employer will pay your agency for your sake. Therefore you will not need to pay any fees to the agency. Watch out however for the fine print of your contract.

There must be a clause that binds you to your employer for a period of time. Also check out if you would need to pay some money to your employer if you left them before your contract expires.

Visa Application

You will have all paperwork in order because you’re an amazing nurse by nature. If you are married, please supply your marriage certificate. I insist on veracity. Tell the truth about you. Do not worry about your finances. Your CoS already has it covered. The application for a Visa is carried out by TLS Contact Centre in 9 West Building, Westlands. You will get the visa I have no doubts.

Welcome to The UK

Congratulations on your Visa. The ocean and the sea are calling out for you. Perhaps you want to do a farewell party before this? Maybe tell us hopeless things like Majuu here I come. Ha ha. However if you’re me, just pack your books, your treasured possessions and leave. You can tell I am too good at goodbyes, no? Come on, stop breaking my heart. Insert a smiling emoji here…

Have your itinerary clear to a fault. As I strode down the steps of the baggage bay Aberdeen International Airport; suitcase in hand and a backpack strapped on my tired shoulders, the last thing I wanted was a no show by my agency staffs. It happened.

The Finals

You will have a practical exam as I had intimated earlier in one of my articles. It will be booked by your employer. You will have to be trained for it and finally take it at a centre near you. If your employer is as adventurous as mine was, you might find yourself in Belfast, Northern Ireland taking the exam all the way from your chosen work station.

This is when you will receive your license. It is known as a Personal Identification Number (PIN). You now carry with you expert power to exercise and demonstrate the NMC Code of Conduct.

Having listened to that bold voice that dared me to dream, I haven’t once stopped. I have learnt I can as well be a student too. I can absorb as much nursing education as possible. I can learn the ways of my mentors from Kenya to the UK. I am still learning. I endeavour to raise the profile of the Kenyan nurse and I will not do it by sitting pretty and watching my painted nails dry. I must put in the work. You too.